@ Darkthora,
With the cross-realm zoning, we found ourselves drowning in a flood of mostly rude people from other RP servers. I hate to sound like an "elite RPer", because I am far from it, but these people seemed as though they were attempting to RP, however, it was more like a serious train wreck. There was plenty of immaturity, and for all intents and purposes, outright trolling and griefing. They would run in and say "Any RP going on?," when it was obvious that a group of us sitting around in RP clothes, and instead of sitting with us and just going with the flow- then they would immediately run away out of the room. I was on my gnome, doing the bartender duties, and had piped up and asked "What is this RP they are asking for? An illicit drug perhaps? I do think these poor Darkshire inhabitants have seen their fair share of strife and thugs with drugs would only complicate things worse for them." Which was of course met with laughter in our vent-server. All joking aside, it was more stressful than just a few random trolls from our own server, and by the time the night was over our ignore lists were full of people from this particular server. I won't mention the server's name because there are good people on there, who don't deserve to be lumped in with the bad ones.
As a side-note, I have spoke with a friend who does a lot of RPing on this server, and she said everyone refers to Darkshire as "THAT Inn..." so by those standards, it can't be good.
We are currently looking into possibilities for a new home, in a less frequented area, and one that fits the darker theme of our guild RP.