Excellent points, Nozz.
Some folks are rather particular about what they want to join (some prefer OOC in-guild with open RP and no one "guild theme" that they have to work under, some want heavy RP, some want military themes, others want something race or class specific). For example, I never enjoyed heavy-RP theme guilds, where everything is IC. I like my OOC time, and then time to let Bells (and my other characters) be themselves IC, too. No one guild will suit all roleplayers, and your suggestion regarding attending a few RP events and checking out RP guilds is a good one.
For as much as role-players are interviewed by guilds, role-players should also interview guilds as well. Sometimes, it takes a bit to find the right match. I'm unaware of what actually transpired and was simply thinking that it might have been the person didn't feel welcomed in general.
I know that reaching out was something discussed at the open OOC meeting last month on Alli side, but I don't recall from the transcript if Aeviercy was present. I was just thinking she might have had some input as to the methods she or her guild uses to welcome newcomers. I don't see a good many posts from RoA in this thread or others and therefore can't really gauge it, and would rather ask than assume.
But... seeing as it might have stemmed from an application decline, I suppose things just didn't go as someone expected. Perhaps that's something that needs discussing in an article/post for the WP site/oBoards. A kind of "What to Expect When You're Apping" kind of thing? :3
Bumps are what we learn from, so even if there was a misunderstanding or miscommunication, we can all learn from this. <3
On a side note, in my opinion, you need not discuss what goes on in CW when it comes to particular applications, etc. Discretion is respectable.
Edited by Bellamuerte on 4/17/2011 4:41 AM PDT