Now that the dust has settled somewhat, my take on your effort:
I was told in a whisper that basically "well, you're in a guild, it's not something to flit around in, it must be obvious", making assumptions that there would be some kind of insignia or whatever. If I had some kind of Ocheliad insignia, I would say so in his MRP description of his attire; I am usually diligent in putting down identifying markers like tabards, badges, et cetera. In this case, I didn't. I would not make assumptions of anyone's affiliation unless they outright said so or gave some kind of indication; on that note, you don't read a person's MRP and then automatically know everything about them when you meet them. (And that includes their name, if they've not introduced themselves to you yet.) There are those who might be identifyable by reputation, of course, but they have to have one first.
In this case, I have made it clear that Sekhesmet has not made a big deal of his affiliation with the LO; those who have a beef with him are predominantly the opponents of his "past incarnation" (when he was Forsaken), and the occasional snob lawyer (nothing but love for ya, Foravin, heh). He knows the LO's reputation and doesn't wear it out in public, to avoid unnecessary (read: beyond the usual range of wondering why he's not dead/in prison kind of) attention. The only person outside of LO who knew he was in LO, and it's because he outright told her (as a way of saying "where else could I go around here?"), was Genevra - when he first returned and aligned with them months back.
I get what you're trying to do here, but the communication needs a little work.