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Originally I'd begun typing this as a rant on all the things I found bad about the way people tend to RP here on Sisters of Elune. I stopped in the middle of writing it and deleted the whole thing, realizing that it would not accomplish anything at all. Instead, I decided to word my post in a more constructive fashion and list a few pointers I would give to, really, the vast majority of the folks on the server.
This isn't a post meant to be read only by those new to RPing (though I would encourage those people to read it as well!), but rather an attempt to maybe open one's eyes to that one little thing they've been doing over the years in RP that has been silently grinding the teeth of everyone around them, unknowingly.
1. Spellcheck your posts! Like it or not, you are writing for an audience, and that audience would be deeply appreciative if you were to capitalize words and names when they needed to be, use commas, periods, etc. It really does improve the readability of your RP, and makes me and others more inclined to do so with you! Nobody wants to RP with someone when it's a chore to figure out exactly what their character is doing.
2. View your RP as a story, not a competition! Many people see RP as little more than a chance to flex their character's muscles and fight with other characters. I see it all too often: "Whoa, so-and-so insulted my character's girlfriend! Time to go open up a can of whoopass up in here!" The ensuing RP fight will then devolve as that person's character starts to lose, causing him to challenge the perfectly-legitimate posts of the other person, all in desperate bid to prevent something bad from happening to their character.
In good stories, bad things happen. That's the way it goes. Your character doesn't have to die but even then, your character dying or getting arrested doesn't mean you lost the RP-game. It just means the story has progressed. I always prefer to have those kinds of things discussed OOC before they happen, of course, but me? I'm always willing to kill off a character or two for the sake of a kickass story. We all love our characters, but we need to make sure the quality of the stories we tell isn't sacrificed because of that.
Originally I'd begun typing this as a rant on all the things I found bad about the way people tend to RP here on Sisters of Elune. I stopped in the middle of writing it and deleted the whole thing, realizing that it would not accomplish anything at all. Instead, I decided to word my post in a more constructive fashion and list a few pointers I would give to, really, the vast majority of the folks on the server.
This isn't a post meant to be read only by those new to RPing (though I would encourage those people to read it as well!), but rather an attempt to maybe open one's eyes to that one little thing they've been doing over the years in RP that has been silently grinding the teeth of everyone around them, unknowingly.
1. Spellcheck your posts! Like it or not, you are writing for an audience, and that audience would be deeply appreciative if you were to capitalize words and names when they needed to be, use commas, periods, etc. It really does improve the readability of your RP, and makes me and others more inclined to do so with you! Nobody wants to RP with someone when it's a chore to figure out exactly what their character is doing.
2. View your RP as a story, not a competition! Many people see RP as little more than a chance to flex their character's muscles and fight with other characters. I see it all too often: "Whoa, so-and-so insulted my character's girlfriend! Time to go open up a can of whoopass up in here!" The ensuing RP fight will then devolve as that person's character starts to lose, causing him to challenge the perfectly-legitimate posts of the other person, all in desperate bid to prevent something bad from happening to their character.
In good stories, bad things happen. That's the way it goes. Your character doesn't have to die but even then, your character dying or getting arrested doesn't mean you lost the RP-game. It just means the story has progressed. I always prefer to have those kinds of things discussed OOC before they happen, of course, but me? I'm always willing to kill off a character or two for the sake of a kickass story. We all love our characters, but we need to make sure the quality of the stories we tell isn't sacrificed because of that.