04/12/2011 12:29 PMPosted by
Kiuas Horde trade chat, in particular, is what I'm most concerned with as it's nearly constantly assaulted by people poking fun of RPers or complaining about the server's lack of them.
I usually have an "RP Only" tab, that includes /y, /s, /w, and such. It removes /g chat and global channels. I keep Trade and General on a separate tab, regardless.
People who come to an RP server and complain about RP? Well, there's a thousand reasons why they do. In the end, maybe they'll realize what they do is kind of... silly. It's like going into a sporting goods store and asking why there are so many athletes all over the place. (There are better analogies. I'm still on my first cup of coffee, however, so forgive me.)
Over the years, I've learned a sure-fire way of dealing with nay-sayers effectively: ignoring them. People are going to complain about something, regardless. They'll mock whatever it is that is different from them or appears weaker, just so they feel better. Let them.
If someone mocking roleplay on a roleplay server helps them feel better that they don't get enough hugs IRL, that their real life boss/teacher/local newspaper delivery boy is a jerk, or because mom and dad never bought them their very own Teddy Ruxpin, so be it. The trick is to not pay attention. There's no rule that says you have to give them any of your time or energy; place it elsewhere. They're the ones who look a bit dim for actually complaining about something that the server was specifically designed for, right? (Secretly, I think most of them would like to RP, but they're afraid. I wish they'd actually just do it rather than being so intimidated. But... that's their choice.)
@Hiccup - Thank you for all the links and info. /knucklebump! That's what I love seeing!
@Rongar - /salute, Kiddo ;) <3
And a final note on Gamon...
He's rather emo; I'd avoid him. Try Wyvern's Tail. Plus, Gravy is a much better barkeep.