Originally i wasn't going to say anything but I changed my mind because I don't think its fair to tell new players we are on the verge of rebirth when things like this happen.I joined the lfrp channel several nights ago to see if there was anything going on. There was only one other person there. They informed me that they weren't going to be on much longer. But they did stay on long enough to tell me that they wouldn't rp with me anyways because of issues caused by someone else. Someone I associated with so I guess that means i have to be punished for their actions.I've said sorry to the people I need to (and gotten those apologizes thrown back at me) and tried to start over but when things like this happen its a step backwards.
Aspellaree makes a valid point, however again if you want the RP you get what you give. Sitting around like a wall flower will not make it fall in your lap. Some folks have offered to RP with you if my memory serves right to which the response was non-committal or a log off. If you wish to take shots at this tool, it does not help that the most some of us have seen you log on for a few seconds then off and can barely get a hello off and are even luckier if we get a response.
I also know some choice individuals made comments to you about leaving the server which were rude, unfounded and blatently disrespectful. I am still irked by that immensely. THAT is what hurts the server. As well as the rumor mill and taking what people say as gospel without screen shots etc to back it up. There is too much of that bs going around. No one on are server is above others.
Unfortunately the whole guit by association thing goes around and bad as it is, it occurs and I have experienced it as well. I made the choice to distance myself and he moved on to another server and I ended up having to remove this person from my guild after I found out they were doing some rather unsavory things (no this is not the same person you may be referring to). My offer still stands to RP on some of my alts, trhe choice is yours. If people are that shallow move on and find folks that wil RP.
No matter what people say, yes we may be pixels but real people play the characters and have feelings. Those indivuduals that feel they have to be the martyr of the server and lead witch hunts or crusades thought they may feel it is justified still hurt the people it is aimed at. They may have the best intentions, that doesn't make it right. All of us have done something in the past that have upset someone. One can either play the blame and point the finger game or own up to their actions.
So remember when you point the finger at others or a tool, there are those pointing right back at you. For those who wish to make accusations, have the proof and do not hold the action of another individual over another that may have been just as led on or duped or may still be their friend. They are -separate- people and should not be judged by the shortcomings and actions of another, especially when they do not condone the other's actions or have tried to stop them. At least they attempted to do the right thing which is more than I can say for others.
Each person handles things how they are comfortable with, as far as apologies go, I can only speak of our conversation and I was made to feel like even though I accepted things I was still the bad guy. I know we have talked and I even have tried to find neutral ground with you. I felt like things done by another induvidual were totally ok and that they could do no wrong by how they were defended. I am leaving it at that and if you wish to discuss it further feel free to contact me whan I am on.