What is really galling me in this thread isn't that people aren't courteous. I'm aware of this -- I work in retail in real life, I am fully aware that people aren't nice. What is really galling me is that people are supporting and encouraging people not to be courteous. We should be discouraging this kind of behavior, not shrugging at it or, even worse, backing it
Uh, what? Who is backing it? I didn't see anyone saying 'He was totally justified!' I even said he was a jerk, and I RP with the guy and am friends with him. I'm shrugging at it because, you know why? Guess what? It's happened to all of us! Repeatedly! Many of us have been around in game since Vanilla, and dealt with the worst of the worst of really horrible griefing - not someone messing with us for less than 5 minutes. You get to a point where you realize
you aren't going to win against some people. It's called /being realistic./ Why am I going to waste my time and energy getting genuinely angry and upset over people in a game when I can just chuckle, go 'Man, what a dbag' to my friends, and then just fix the situation if I can, and move on? That's MY point. I'm fairly sure it's other people's point, too.
I really don't understand why it is that what other people think is getting to you so much. Plenty of people don't agree with my RP methodologies. Do I sweat over it? Do I make call out posts on the forums and get cranky when people don't agree with me? No. I make crass comments to my friends, who are like minded, and am over it, because if people have no interest in changing, trying to slam their head against the wall over and over isn't going to do anything.
*editted because everything is a curseword to blizz. >>