Note: This read is going by fairly fast, so I'm altering my response as it all comes in. Apologies if things are a bit, uh, unorganized.
I'm not really sure where the idea I'm some king stroking his ego with minions came from. It happens with or without me, and I hardly do it to feel better about myself. (It turns out we both decided to stop playing nice with people that irked us. Ah, the cycle of revenge.)
I don't deny the GY camping is a *%@@ move, really. Easily avoidable as it is, it still is, as you said, thuggish. So I hardly mind if you show up to defend the folks throwing themselves at it, since I'd do much the same. I'd still prefer you avoid all those forum topics, though. It just makes the server look bad.
To be honest, that whispering thing isn't much of an issue, now that the intent behind it was revealed. I was just curious and felt it contradictory, since no mention was made at the time about the graveyard camping in the slightest. (Hell, the whispering didn't even occur on a night when we did camp.) As I said, ignore exists for a reason. I was just curious, so thank you for clarifying now. It might be a good idea to let people know that in the future, though :p
That said, I didn't actually stop graveyard camping because someone showed up to fight back.(Although due to the timing, I can understand why one would think that) As I said, I /enjoy/ those fights. I stopped because, simply put, it was a *%@@ move, and I grew tired of responding to unpleasant behavior with unpleasant behavior of my own, especially when it was hurting far more people than just those it was directed at. We'd all make a pretty !@#$ty Batman, it turns out.
All that said, I hope we can let all this die down and the forum warring settle, considering things have been clarified some.